pfp's post
Lately I've been wishing my boyfriend was a little less vanilla, you know what I mean? Does anyone else ever feel this way? Is there a way to coax out their inner kinks? Category: Sexual Fantasies
View Articlespunkmonkey's post
Have not really thought about it before. I guess if I wanted more from her, we would need to sit down and talk about it. Category: Sexual Fantasies
View ArticleGunsmoke's post
Yes - my wife is way to vanilla - but after 23 years, I guess I've come to peace with the fact that it is what it is. Category: Sexual Fantasies
View Articlesolitudinarian's post
Not really. He's fairly kinky already. Category: Sexual Fantasies
View Articlebayosgirl's post
Yeah. "Kinky" for him is spanking me. And he won't even do it hard. LOL Category: Sexual Fantasies
View ArticleKhanner's post
I don't think my boyfriend will ever be a masochist but I still love him anyway. Category: Sexual Fantasies
View Articleepiphanyjayne's post
yes and no, I love what we got right now, sometimes I wonder if he change things up if that would be better, but maybe not. I don't know(shrug) Category: Sexual Fantasies
View Articleindiglo's post
I think I'm actually VERY fortunate. My man is willing to try anything I ask of him, at least once, even if it does nothing for him. He's one of the good ones. (inlove) Category: Sexual Fantasies
View ArticleTaylor's post
he's kinkier than I am anyway. I might be a little scared if he was even more kinky Category: Sexual Fantasies
View ArticleSMichelle's post
No, my partner is extremely kinky, and I love it. Category: Sexual Fantasies
View ArticleChuChii's post
It kind of depends for me, my partner is kinky when he wants to be, but when he is kinky he takes it over bored, but I must admit I love it, I think at times I'm the vanilla one. lol but when I get...
View Articleeeep's post
I've had this problem with boyfriends in the past, sometimes you can get them to open up to the idea of new things, and sometimes you can't. I tend to be pretty open with guys that I have a few kinks...
View ArticleGanconagh's post
I am lucky, my girl is up for most anything Category: Sexual Fantasies
View ArticleIstanbull's post
I'll never have anything "kinky" so long as I remain with my wife. When we were having sex she refused to do anything. She would piss and moan if I wanted sex doggy style. One time I talked her into...
View Articlemlmac's post
I am by far the kinky one in our relationship and she is more on the vanilla side of things. It would be awesome if she would open up a little, but either way , I'm still happy with what I got....
View Articlembrdr2012's post
Until recently I thought my husband was very vanilla, ummm not so much! We had a discussion (which is how I found EF) about things we thought we might want to try and he is not nearly as vanilla as I...
View Articlemailroomorder's post
Yeah. There are definitely times in which I've wished my partner shared some of my kinks. Category: Sexual Fantasies
View ArticleTangerine's post
I have to say I am VERY happy with the sex life my girlfriend and I have. We just discuss what "gross things" are off the table and everything else is fair game. So no vanilla over here. Discussion and...
View ArticleSaucyxGirl's post
My partner is strictly vanilla while I am a total kinkster. So far we have made this work, although I wont lie we have had quite a few sexual slumps during our relationship. I knew he was vanilla...
View Articleud328's post
I'd say I'm a little kinkier than she is but not so much so that we're boring. It's been a long slow 'process' of bringing out her kinky side and she seems to be enjoying the new things we try no...
View ArticlePadoruLover's post
I can't say I do since he is inducting me into a more kinky lifestyle and I love it! Category: Sexual Fantasies
View ArticleVnessa's post
There are times, yes. I'm definitely the kinkier spouse and sometimes I wish he would break out a thunderous boom of kink on me. But, that hardly happens. So, i've grown into my big girl panties,...
View ArticleRonLee's post
I've definitely been the kinky one in nearly all of the partnerships I've been in. Category: Sexual Fantasies
View ArticleInquisitor's post
I honestly can't say. I can tell you guys that I'm the one who is definitely more vocal about sharing my ideas. In the past I've asked the partner questions usually while we are enjoying an adult move...
View Articlegagehale's post
yes i wish my wife was a bit more kinkier. its not a big deal but you do think about it every now and then. Category: Sexual Fantasies
View ArticleOH&W, Lovebears's post
No, I'm happy with the way Ow is. :D Perfect for me. (inlove) (love dance) Category: Sexual Fantasies
View ArticleInquisitor's post
Eh, sometimes. I mean I love her either way but I wish she would let "her hair down" more often. You know let the bad girl out to play. She's a fun one! Category: Sexual Fantasies
View ArticleThong man's post
I thought my wife was "vanilla" until I started bringing up ideas. I realized that she has a kinky side to her. Category: Sexual Fantasies
View Articlekonicaguy's post
I certainly wish my wife was kinkier, but I've just gotten used to the fact that she is who she is and I would never push her out of her comfort zone. Category: Sexual Fantasies
View ArticleEvoluchun's post
no im good i like my bf is not kinky much cause neither am i Category: Sexual Fantasies
View ArticleGunsmoke's post
I'm guessing this is true for many couples. At least it's true for us. "In the beginning" there seems to be a need to 'play the good girl' - which mostly implies not being too experienced or eager. My...
View ArticleAdam7476's post
I wished mine would open up a little more, but its who she is and I still love her not matter what. Category: Sexual Fantasies
View ArticleOH&W, Lovebears's post
Many men and I suppose women want their SO's to be more kinky:) or desire more sex.(love shower) Some men need to be careful of what they wish for. Women can be insatiable if get overly aroused.:P And...
View ArticleGunsmoke's post
Yep - I'm there. At times I feel like a created a 'monster' or at least a nymphomaniac (WOW) - but I've got to tell you I'm not complaining! After 25 years of begging for more - now I can beg for her...
View Articlefrisky069's post
I wish my husband was a bit more kinky also! Honestly the only way I get him to be a little kinkier is by explaining how much fun it would be for me to do certain things or how I enjoy certain things....
View ArticleBailed's post
I'm pragmatic and realistic. I have read enough, have been exposed to enough, and have had sex talks with enough women to infer that in general, women are more kinky than men. Consistent with posts of...
View ArticleSoloRebel's post
I just wish my wife was as half as kinky as I am; that’d be just fine (crazy). Spank, pinch, poke, slap, choke, peg me...I’m game! She’s got a kink side; I’ve seen sparks of it from time to time, but...
View ArticleBailed's post
Have you asked her? From experience, when a woman authentically trusts her boyfriend/husband and knows he'll not judge her, she'll tell him everything and anything. My advice is to never violate a...
View ArticleBailed's post
After a last Saturday informal gathering of couples, there is no doubt in my mind that women are more kinky than men. That's a good thing. Men love naughty women. Category: Sexual Fantasies
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